December 28, 2006

Dogs And Prospects

I've always been naturally good with dogs. Not Dog Whisperer good, but good none the less. In fact, when Cindy and I first began dating, it was her family poodle, Schnooky, that sealed the deal for me with Cindy's heart. (Seems I was the only guy Cindy ever dated who Schnooky trusted, and Cindy figured if Schnooky trusted me, maybe she could too.)

Shopping for a stocking stuffer this year, Cindy stumbled across "Cesar's Way: The Natural, Everyday Guide to Understanding and Correcting Common Dog Problems." Knowing my love of dogs and my admiration for the way Cesar handles them, she bought me a copy.

First of all, this book is a must-read for anyone who owns a dog, provided he or she is willing to let go of  human ego and the un-dog-like need to humanize the pet. The simple, undeniable fact, is that a dog will be happiest when it is allowed to be a dog, treated like a dog and related to like a dog, and a miserable, neurotic wreck if its owner insists on turning it into a four-legged human. For example, did you know that your dog will actually be happier if it must earn its food? For millions of years, dogs did not eat until after they hunted, and caught, their prey. Then, after they gorged themselves on the kill, they played, then rested.

The very notion of having to earn a meal is instinctive, yet almost every dog in America is denied this thrill every time a bowl of food is "lovingly" placed. Want a happier dog? Want to demonstrate true love for your pet? From this moment on, feed not only your dog's belly, but its desire to earn its meal by making it sit and stay until calm before you place the bowl. (Yes, even that simple act of obeying its "pack leader's" command and submitting to that control will help create a more well-balanced, happy dog.)

Second, this book is an absolute must-read for anyone who sells to corporate executives, because virtually every concept Cesar explains is a direct metaphor for sales in corporate America.

Take "energy" for example. In the book, Cesar explains how a dog can immediately sense the energy of any person it encounters. He then discusses how the wrong energy will create fear, hostility and a wide range of other negative emotional responses, but the right energy -- calm-assertive energy -- will trigger almost any dog to assume a calm-submissive role. (It's millions of years of dog-pack dynamics that makes this behavior instinctive.)

Buy the book and read it cover-to-cover. Then, the next time you're heading on a sales call, imagine yourself as the alpha dog entering the pack. Become the calm, assertive leader the pack wants to follow, and enter the room knowing that you're in charge.

Worst-case scenario, you'll share the leadership role with the top executive in the room, and virtually eliminate the pack's ability to influence his or her thinking.

Best-case scenario you'll own the room completely.


Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

July 21, 2006

Book Review: Money Talks - How To Make A Million As A Speaker

Money Talks - How To Make A Million As A Speaker, by Alan Weiss, Ph.D. -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

I'm an avid reader of Alan Weiss' many books, because they consistently contain more solid and usable advice than most books I've read. Yes, Weiss is a highly opinionated and sometimes controversial author and speaker, but that's exactly why I like most of his stuff.

Unless you are absolutely serious about making changes, do not buy this book -- it's got so many great suggestions you'll get overwhelmed and quit. But if making money as a speaker is on your to-do list, roll up your sleeves and start here.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

Speaking is a profession, so treat it like one – that's the fundamental idea conveyed throughout Money Talks. Weiss advises that anyone who accepts compensation for speaking to a group has an obligation to provide value not only to the attendees of the meeting, but to the owner of the meeting as well.

Weiss' approach with Money Talks is to overload you with practical advice, exercises and homework (often in the form of checklists) that will guide you through the process of creating a professional speaking career.

Just as I constantly advise you to leverage your strengths and create your own system for selling, Weiss advises you to create your own path to speaking success.

Opinion: I love this book because, while Weiss gives you tons of advice about what to do and how to do it, his overall philosophy is that you must both do what fits your style and accept personal responsibility for your success or failure – two values to which I also hold strongly.

The Process

Money Talks walks you through the complete process of building a speaking career – from determining your message and creating your presentations, to finding paying clients and leveraging speakers bureaus, and on to setting and ultimately raising your fees.

And by organizing the book into three primary sections he calls Savvy, Steak and Sizzle, he virtually guarantees that, if you do the work, you'll be successful at building your speaking career.

I normally prefer to offer an in-depth opinion of the processes, ideas, strengths and weaknesses of the books I review. But, in this case, I'll just say:

  1. Buy it today.
  2. Read it tomorrow.
  3. Implement the ideas that fit your strengths immediately.

Do those three things, and I promise you'll be a more highly paid and successful speaker almost immediately.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

June 08, 2006

Book Review: Customers For Life

Customers For Life, by Carl Sewell and Paul B. Brown -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

Have you ever heard about a person who bought a $2 painting at a garage sale only to discover it's a long-lost Rembrandt worth about $30 million?

Well Cindy, my wife, didn't exactly find a Rembrandt at a local garage sale, but she did pay only $.50 for a book that, in the right hands, could very well be worth the same $30 million.

I honestly have no idea how Customers For Life slipped past my radar when it came out in 1990, but I'm sorry I didn't read it then, because if I had, I can guarantee you that I'd have doubled my income during the last decade.

Read the many reviews I have on this site, and you'll quickly find that I always disagree with at least one or two key concepts each author is trying to convey. Not so with Sewell's masterpiece – I can honestly and literally say I agreed with every single word.

If you have customers, put Customers For Life at the top of your must-read list.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

In an industry that is notorious not only for its sleazeball sales tactics, but for its blatant disregard for anything but opening the customer's pocketbook, Carl Sewell took his automobile sales and service dealerships to the top of the sales charts. Then, year after year he set never-before-imagined goals and led his team to success at achieving and surpassing them.

And he accomplished this feat by applying the simplest of concepts: If you'd do it for a friend, do it for a customer, and if you wouldn't charge the friend, don't charge the customer either.

From instilling pride in your employees to creating customers for life, Sewell has words of wisdom that every business executive should hear.

Opinion: I'm sure that some people will disagree with what Sewell has to say, and that a few will undoubtedly think he's nuts, but those willing to look beyond their egos and throw away their preconceived notions will quickly learn from what this astounding businessman has to say.

Afterword

Instead of giving you more of my thoughts on Customers For Life, I figured I'd share with you the short afterword contained in the book itself.

It was written for Sewell by Stanley Marcus. (Yes, that Marcus.)

What you've just finished reading is something you don't find in too many books – common sense, plainly stated.

The author, Carl Sewell, has the ability to define problems and reduce them into simple components which can then be solved. Above all, he has the capacity to think straight. He writes as he talks and he talks as he thinks.

In this book, he explains how he engaged me as a consultant, but he doesn't relate the whole story. My reply to his invitation was that I knew so little about automobiles that I doubted if I could be of much help to him. His reply was that he didn't need to learn about cars, but more about running a business selling luxury products.

Carl realized that the only exclusivity he could ever possess in the automobile business was a superior quality of service, and he set out to build it with zeal and imagination and common sense.

Recently I addressed a group of European industrialists who had come to the United States to study how some American firms have achieved such high service standards. I told them that first of all they had to respect their customers; second, they had to learn to love them; eventually they would adore them.

All of this is what Carl Sewell knows so well and has put to work with such sincerity. It's so simple that it might appear miraculous that so few have copied his techniques. Carl really cares, and that is the hardest thing of all to copy. From reading Customers For Life, it's evident that Carl's mother "raised him right."

Not only is this the definitive textbook for anyone in automobile manufacturing or selling, but it is equally valid for everyone engaged in the process of selling to the ultimate customer.

If you don't learn from this book, it's your fault.

Opinion: Marcus' last statement is the ultimate way to summarize how I too feel about Customers For Life.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

May 22, 2006

Book Review: INFLUENCE, Science And Practice

INFLUENCE, Science And Practice, by Robert B. Cialdini, Ph.D. -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

I first read INFLUENCE in its original version, "INFLUENCE, The Psychology of Persuasion," in 1996. Simply put, of all the books I've read on marketing, INFLUENCE has made the greatest positive impact on my success. Personally, I think this is because the book was not written for marketers – it is simply a study of why people go on auto-pilot when making certain decisions.

In my opinion, this book is absolutely a "must read" for anyone who is in sales or marketing. In fact, I think anyone who buys or sells anything should read this one.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

Since INFLUENCE isn't a sales book, there is no sales philosophy to discuss. However, the book does explain key aspects of how to persuade people to do things they might not ordinarily do, so I'd like to make a point about the philosophy of implementing what Cialdini has to say.

According to Cialdini, we all have certain preprogrammed behavioral actions that will activate when properly stimulated. In his book he covers not only the most prominent actions, but what causes them to activate. So, after you read the book, you will be armed with tools you can use to manipulate someone, should you choose to do so.

Opinion: While Cialdini is absolutely correct about the ability to influence behavior with the knowledge in his book, he doesn't discuss the after-the-fact repercussions of having done so. In the sales profession, we know this as "buyer's remorse" – after signing on the dotted line, the buyer regrets the decision without really knowing why. So if you use Cialdini's concepts in a sales call, you can expect more canceled contracts, and, with those who don't cancel, you can expect your relationships to be less than amicable.

Opinion: It's okay to use Cialdini's information in written form – business letters, articles, website copy (yes, book reviews) – because people can easily discard the information. But person-to-person use of much of what he describes can be harmful in the long term.

The Process

INFLUENCE is a study of human behavior during which patterns are detected, analysis is conducted and behavioral theory is developed. Cialdini then tests each of his theories and includes in his book those which he can prove – he names each of his behaviors and collectively calls them "weapons of influence." They are:

  • Reciprocation
  • Commitment and Consistency
  • Social Proof
  • Liking
  • Authority
  • Scarcity

I'm going to give you an example of only one weapon of influence, because I truly believe you should buy the book and read it for yourself. And the weapon I'll explain is social proof, because anyone in sales pretty much already knows about this one.

Social Proof

Simply put, when making a major purchase decision a buyer never has all the facts – he must always make part of the decision on gut instinct and therefore has some fear of making a mistake.

  • Is this service really as good as this sales guy says?
  • Could I get this same result at a better price if I keep looking?
  • Is there something I'm missing that's going to bite me in the butt if I do this?
  • How badly will making this switch hurt in the short term?
  • If I buy and read this book, will it be a waste of my money and, more importantly, my time?

Fears such as these always exist, and they can never be explained away by a salesperson. And buyers don't like saying "yes" when these fears are present and unanswered.

Enter social proof.

Social proof is really nothing more than a third-party influence perceived as having more knowledge "than I do." If a good client refers you, for instance, your new prospect is already heavily influenced to ignore his fears, because "Joe said you were a great guy."

Speaking of social proof ...

Opinion: I believe every adult on the planet should buy and read "INFLUENCE, Science and Practice." Even if you don't sell, this book will arm you with much of the knowledge you need to avoid "being sold."

On a value scale of one to 10, this is a definite 10.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

April 12, 2006

Book Review: Selling To VITO

Selling To VITO, by Anthony Parinello -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

I read Selling To VITO (The Very Important Top Officer) several years ago, and ever since I've incorporated some of what I learned into every cold-letter campaign I've done. I'm convinced that many of Parinello's ideas have helped me increase success, and I think his book is a worthwhile read.

Unlike many books that tell you what to do but not how, this is a true how-to book -- a self-starter can read the book and implement the process without having to take Parinello's sales course. I found that to be quite a refreshing change, and I hope you do as well.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

Selling To VITO is a how-to-get-in-the-door book about using customer research, cold-letters, phone calls and voicemail to get in the door with decision-makers, or, as Parinello calls them, "VITOs."

The success of Parinello's process is rooted in four key features:

  1. Social Proof*: If other, well-known companies used you, then you must be great.
  2. Authority*: One of VITO's peers will supply testimonials of success on your behalf.
  3. Process: Develop a linear process to ensure objectives are preplanned and met.
  4. Consistency: Keep a consistent message that focuses on results and makes you stand out as unique among the many salespeople attempting to get in.

*For information on social proof and authority, see my review of INFLUENCE, Science And Practice, by Robert B. Cialdini, Ph.D.

I found almost everything about the research and letter-writing process to be insightful and valuable. I did cringe mightily when I hit the follow-up call and voicemail sections of the book, however, because several of the techniques were way too "over the top" for me to implement. (It's just not in my behavioral makeup to be that perky!)

Something Parinello does not clearly state (although you'll pick up on it if you look closely) is that his process is a ton of work. So the VITO process will probably produce much better results for salespeople who sell at lower quantities, than for those who sell to hundreds, or thousands, of prospects each year.

The Process

Selling To VITO is primarily a hunter system that works best when you're targeting a handful of companies. Read the book, and you'll learn valid techniques for:

  1. Researching prospects and their companies, so you can position yourself for a peer-to-peer relationship with decision-makers.
  2. Cold-letter writing that will get you past gatekeepers and into the "do something with this" box of a fair percentage of decision-makers.
  3. Overcoming the roadblocks placed in your path by non-decision-makers.
  4. Using voicemail to get VITOs to call you back. (This is a process I was unable -- perhaps unwilling is more accurate -- to make work, because, while I'm passionate about what I sell, faking perkiness simply doesn't work for me.)
  5. Handling sales appointments and presentations to VITOs. (Note: The processes in The "I Hate Selling" Book are a better fit for me.)

Recommendation

I believe Selling To VITO is a book most salespeople should read, even if they don't end up using the techniques verbatim.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

March 27, 2006

Book Review: Selling With Integrity

Selling With Integrity, by Sharon Drew Morgan -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

As part of the competitive research effort that went into starting Honest Selling, I actually read "Selling With Integrity" in early 2000. My initial interest was, of course, the name of the book, as it seemed to match my philosophy and ideas about selling.

While nothing written in the book contradicts the philosophy conveyed by the title, I remember having an uneasy feeling that something was missing as I worked my way through the book. It wasn't until rereading the book for this review that I figured out from where that feeling came.

I hope you find that aspect of this review interesting.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

"Selling With Integrity" is indeed a book for anyone who is struggling to make the conceptual switch from using manipulation to using honesty to sell. Throughout the book, using many religious undertones, Ms. Morgan places an emphasis on doing what's right, thinking of the prospect's problems first, putting your needs second and generally collaborating to identify whether a reason to do business exists. (These are all ideals with which I agree.)

In chapter three, she summarizes these ideals with what she calls the "Six Principles Of Buying Facilitation."

  1. You have nothing to sell if there's no one to buy.
  2. Relationship comes first, task second.
  3. The buyer has the answers; the seller has the questions.
  4. Service is the goal; discovery is the outcome; a sale may be the solution.
  5. People buy only when they can't fill their own needs.
  6. People buy using their own buying patterns, not a seller's selling patterns.

Each of these principles is then explained in one or two pages of detail that will probably help you if you're trying to justify the switch to honesty in sales.

In addition, this book attempts to outline methods for getting inside the head of the buyer, so you can sell the way the buyer buys instead of manipulating him or her into buying the way you sell.

While I am totally on board with that concept, the actual examples and ideas get you, at best, half way to that goal.

The Process

If there's any area where this book falls short, it's in defining a process for accomplishing the results you're after. I'm a huge believer in process, so I found myself ready to jot down "do this, do that" notes, only to be left with less than a page of implementation ideas after I finished reading. (I like books that give me homework, so I'm undoubtedly biased here.)

Still, some good examples are dotted throughout the text, as are some really good lists of questions you might ask your prospects. And there are a few good examples of how certain styles of questions work better or worse than others, or how one style elicits a negative reaction, while another elicits a positive one.

So what I suggest is that, before reading this book, you assemble all your current material (marketing plans, sales checklists and questions, etc.) and then take notes in the margins of that material as you go. That way, you'll be able to slightly improve your approach based on what Ms. Morgan has to say.

My Reservations

My single biggest reservation comes not from the book itself, but from the response I got when I contacted Ms. Morgan with a question.

I had noticed that every example in the book ended in a positive outcome. For instance, the book conveys that, to get a great conversation with a prospect, all you have to do is call and say, "This is a sales call." So I actually tried doing exactly what the book said, and I tracked my results:

  • I dialed the phone 150 times.
  • I reached a gatekeeper 31 times and my prospect 21 times. (The remainder were busy signals, no-answers, auto attendants, voice-mails, etc.)
  • I introduced myself and said, "This is a sales call."
  • Every gatekeeper responded with some form of: "[Mr. Jones] doesn't take sales calls."
  • Every prospect responded with some form of: "I don't take sales calls."

In reality, this was about what I expected, because despite the blatantly honest approach, I wasn't actually adding value to anyone's day.

But nothing is 100 percent, so I decided to play mystery shopper, contact Ms. Morgan and ask, "How many phone calls do you actually have to make before you get one of those great conversations you describe in your book?"

After dodging the question by telling me "I don't track such things," I forced the issue once more, and she finally said, "If you insist on questioning the process, then you clearly aren't committed to making it work." (These quotes are from memory, so while they convey her attitude, they are probably not exact wording.)

That's when the light bulb finally turned on and I realized what was missing from the book. It has no actual statistics and no real-world failure examples.

Opinion: When I called, I expected to speak with someone who would interview me and help me decide whether her course was for me. What I got instead was more like what I'd expect from a cult leader who wanted to indoctrinate me, and who expected me to accept everything on blind faith.

Opinion: I have a standing rule to always be suspect of any sales professional that doesn't track dialing activity, because salespeople often wear rose-colored glasses and conveniently forget the hundreds of bad results once the cherry comes along. I also don't use any professional who failes to practice what he or she preaches.

Recommendation

For those who still struggle to understand why honesty in sales works, or who want to punch up some of their prospect questions, the book is worth reading. Just don't accept on blind faith any of the results claimed in the book. Instead, test the ideas for yourself, and track your results.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

February 13, 2006

Book Review: High Probability Selling

High Probability Selling, by Jacques Werth and Nicholas E. Ruben -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

This will be a detailed, in-depth review of my beliefs and opinions about High Probability Selling (HPS), because of all the sales systems I've learned, it's the one that has most greatly impacted my success. So to begin, I should tell you a bit about my qualifications for offering these opinions.

  • I've been selling professional services for more than 25 years, and I've been an owner and the top dog in charge of sales for five start-up service firms. All of them were successful businesses, and I'm still an active partner in three.
  • On February 3, 1998, my business partner found the HPS website, read the first chapter of the book, sent me the link and said, "Gill, you have to read this. It sounds like what you've been trying to do."
  • That same day I read all four chapters on the site and bought the book. (I had it delivered overnight – paying more for shipping than I did for the book.)
  • The next day, after receiving the book and devouring it, I signed up for a $950 open workshop in Chicago that was scheduled to start the following week.
  • I took the course and immediately applied the techniques. For about a month, I drove Jacques Werth nuts with questions – all of which he gladly answered.
  • By the end of the following month (March 1998), Jacques saw that, in his words, I "got it," and invited me to be his right-hand man at an open workshop in Houston, Texas.
  • Shortly after the Houston workshop, I started the HPS Alumni list server – an e-mail discussion group set up to help HPS users. During the following five years, I moderated that list and helped hundreds of HPS users get better results – both by understanding and applying what Jacques teaches, and by going beyond HPS when needed.
  • In November 1999, Jacques and I talked about my becoming a licensed partner of HPS. This conversation took place over a few months, and included my training the HPS course one time – as a test, of sorts. During this period I decided that opening a branch of HPS was too limiting for me, because I wanted to work with more than just HPS techniques. So, instead of starting an HPS division, I launched Honest Selling.
  • During the next three years, Jacques brought me in to help him train HPS clients twice. Other than that, I haven't trained HPS itself, because my specialty has always been to mold lots of sales and marketing concepts to the person, instead of molding the person to one concept.
  • Since taking the course, I have made more than 10,000 HPS dials myself – I think that's an adequate test of any prospecting system – and have overseen another 100,000+ dials using this system – either made by my own people or by my clients' salespeople. It is this experience that formed the opinions in this review.
  • Since March of 2000, when I started Honest Selling, I have personally told more than 200 people to go to HPS, because the training they needed matched what HPS offers better than what I offer. I believe there is no one better suited to training HPS than the man who created it and the people who so passionately believe in it, which is why I always send these folks to HPS instead of training them myself. (Of course when they're done, quite a few come back to me for the rest of the prospecting, marketing and selling puzzle.)

Following are my frank opinions of the HPS philosophy, systems, processes, concepts and ideas, and of the interactions you'll have with HPS employees if you take the course. These opinions come from my own, real-world experience with HPS, the experiences of hundreds of other HPS users, and the interactions I've had with some of my clients who have used the process.

I do believe in the concepts of HPS, and I think learning them can and will help most people sell more effectively. My goal with this review is, therefore, to point out the pitfalls and holes that I've uncovered, so that anyone buying the book or taking the course can be more successful.

Opinion: The only reason to buy and read the book is to help you determine whether to take the course. While the book does contain all the concepts, it alone is not enough for you to learn the system. (Jacques actually states this quite clearly in the opening pages and closing pages of the book.)

I hope this helps you decide where HPS fits into your sales efforts – or whether it fits at all.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

High Probability Selling is founded on the philosophy that it is much more efficient to meet with and sell to people who already want what you're selling, than to attempt to convince people who don't want it to buy it anyway. Whenever you interact with a prospect, your goal is to find the reason he shouldn't, can't or doesn't want to buy, and to do so as fast as you can.

The fundamental theory being, if you find the "showstopper" early, you can save time that would have been wasted trying to convince him to buy something he didn't want (under the assumption that most people who are only interested don't buy). In the long run, if you use the saved time to find other people who want what you're offering, you'll sell more than you would have using traditional methods.

To summarize the HPS philosophical belief:

  • A traditional salesperson meets with anyone that has a pulse and then tries to manipulate him into buying whether he wants to or not.
  • HPS salespeople meet with only people who want what's being sold, and let them decide whether to buy or not – either answer is fine.

In practice, using a disqualification method is not only more effective, it helps you avoid all the negativity associated with trying to manipulate people into doing things they don't really want to do.

The elimination of these horribly negative feelings (the feelings that many motivational techniques are designed to overcome) is what gives rise to the cult-like behavior you'll find when people discuss HPS – they mostly say they either love it or hate it, regardless of whether it's actually increasing their sales success.

For example, read the book reviews of HPS on the Amazon.com website, and you'll basically see two schools of thought:

  1. "HPS is the absolute best thing that anyone has ever created and it has changed my life so completely that I can't imagine ever having sold any other way!"
  2. "HPS is a pile of dung!"

These opposing viewpoints represent the left and right ends of the Normal Curve on opinions about HPS. As is the case with every Normal Curve, reality for 90 percent of the population will always lie somewhere in the middle.

This review is my attempt to explain that reality.

Opinion: I truly believe in never manipulating anyone into anything, and it was my exposure to HPS that crystallized my thinking on this concept.

The Process

At its core, the HPS process is a "hunter system." It consists of two main activities:

  1. High-volume cold-calling to find people who want what you're offering.
  2. Going on sales appointments with only people who want what you're offering and who are willing to conditionally commit to buying it.

If you take the course, in addition to learning disqualification concepts, you'll be taught:

  • How to describe your products or services based on their features, rather than on the results they produce or the benefits of producing those results.
  • How to craft cold-call offers.
  • Methods for list selection.
  • What demeanor to have when cold-calling.
  • How to give offers to prospects and their gatekeepers.
  • Scripted answers to the types of "yes," "no" and "maybe" responses you'll get from the people who answer the phones.
  • How to set appointments and get commitments from prospects.

In the Sales Appointment section of the course, you'll learn:

  • How to confirm the commitments that were made, and what to do when they're broken.
  • An inquiry process in which you interview the prospect about his personal life, so you can determine whether you trust him enough to enter into a business agreement.
  • A scripted questioning process designed to uncover the things that might typically keep you from making the sale.
  • A questioning format designed to set mutual expectations for the product or service being sold.

Cold-Calling: Offer Creation

On November 28, 2003, in answer to a question posed by an HPS alumni, Jacques Werth writes:

"There is no need for your prospects to know what kind of problems your company can solve or for you to attempt to dig into what their problems are before they say yes to an offer."

If you sell products to professional buyers – such as forklifts to a warehouse manager – then I completely agree. After all, the warehouse manager absolutely knows how much weight the lift must handle, how high his shelving units are, what safety features are a must at his facility, and so on.

If, however, you sell complicated professional services, such as custom software development, then I couldn't disagree more, because the decision-makers who write the checks – CEOs, presidents, VPs – couldn't care less about things like the programming language you use.

The only things about which decision-makers give a hoot are solving their problems by producing results, making sure their decisions have long-term, positive advantages and creating positive returns on their investments. To get "yes" responses from these folks, you must create offers that speak directly to the results they want to produce. And, you must craft offers that are in their words, not yours.

Opinion: The offer creation concepts in HPS are quite sound, but if you sell professional services you must go beyond what is taught in the HPS course.

Cold-Calling: Scripted Responses

When using HPS cold-calling, you make an offer and hope for either a "yes" or "no" response. In fact, you operate under the assumption that anything else is unacceptable. As such, when you get anything else, you're supposed to force the issue by trying to get the prospect to make an immediate "yes/no" decision.

For example, suppose you dial the phone and make an offer for accounting services, and the prospect answers with something like, "We're happy with our current firm." You're supposed to reply with something like, "Does that mean you're willing to work with someone new, or not?" (Force the issue to a "yes" or "no.")

Another scripted example is how to respond to a non sequitur, such as, "I'm busy right now." To that, you're supposed to use a restatement like, "Does that mean you want professional accounting services with a four-hour response time to questions, and that are billed on an hourly basis, or not?" (a restatement of the guts of your original offer, forcing a "yes/no" response).

In my opinion, these types of Scripted Responses violate the fundamental law of selling – listen to your prospects – and using them made me very uncomfortable. Despite this feeling, when I first learned HPS, I used those types of responses anyway, because I believed what I was taught – that my discomfort was irrelevant, and that the Scripted Responses were the best way to go.

But after thousands of phone calls and hundreds of comments like, "I said I was busy. Can't you hear?" (followed by a slam of the phone), I abandoned the scripts in favor of simply listening to my prospects and responding to whatever they said.

Yes, I did continue to work toward a "yes" or "no," but, by abandoning the Scripted Responses, I stopped ticking people off and actually arrived at more "yes" responses than I had with the more abrupt scripts.

Opinion: The HPS Scripted Responses are a great learning tool, but in the real world, it is much more effective to listen to prospects and deal with their comments on a case-by-case basis.

Cold-Calling: Does It Actually Work?

After reading the cold-calling examples in the book, I found myself amazed at how quickly someone could get an appointment – it seemed like after only a few calls you'll get appointments with people who are committed to buying. This, in fact, is not the case at all, so you need to do some math before deciding whether HPS Cold-Calling will work for you. I suggest you look at the best-case and worst-case scenarios, assume you'll be somewhere in between, then factor in effort vs. reward.

An HPS prospecting session consists of three hours of dialing separated by two 15-minute breaks. You do one session per day, and it generally takes about a half hour of list administration to complete the session. So that means four hours per day is spent on each session.

If you're really good, you can dial the phone about 150 times each session. (I've seen claims of 180 dials per session, but I've never talked to anyone who hit those numbers and personally have never done better than 120.)

Based on my company's experience with tens of thousands of dials (most of which were for clients paying us to prospect on their behalf), and the experiences reported to me by other HPS users, I believe a best-case scenario would look something like this:

  • 150 dials per day.
  • 18 percent of your dials will result in offers. (The other 82 percent will be made up of bad phone numbers, voicemail and auto-attendant roadblocks, gatekeepers, busy signals, "executive left the company," etc.)
  • You'll get one "yes" response out of every 40 offers.
  • You'll close a sale 90 percent of the time.

This translates to 3.3 "yes" responses per week. Throw out the .3 who disqualify immediately, and you still get 3 new sales appointments at a 90 percent close rate for every week of dialing. (Note: I've never seen this done, but I believe with the right environment, the right products, the right list and the right person selling, it could be achieved.)

For a worst-case scenario, I'll ignore total-failure situations, which can and do happen to top-notch HPS salespeople, because these total failures are typically the result of things out of the control of the person doing the dialing. For example, we once made 3,000 dials for a client and got no sales appointments. (We learned that the services the client was selling had been replaced by the prospects' high-end software systems, and were no longer desired by anyone.)

Real estate, financial and insurance salespeople have reported the following, which I believe qualifies as worst case:

  • 120 dials per day.
  • 15 percent of your dials will result in offers.
  • You'll get one "yes" response out of every 250 offers.
  • You'll close a sale 50 percent of the time.

This calculates to less than 1 new client every 27 days of dialing, even when everything is working as designed.

Opinion: Reality for most of us, I believe, will be closer to best-case than worst-case scenario. Still, unless you can answer "yes" to all of the following questions, the HPS style of cold-calling may not be cost effective for you:

  1. For every full-time salesperson, can you acquire a list of 3,000 prospects who are highly likely to want what you sell sometime this year?
  2. Do all of these prospects qualify for what you sell? (I have a client who sells financial products, and the salespeople can't learn whether a prospect qualifies until after they get a "yes" response. As a result, they waste a ton of time calling people they should never have called.)
  3. Once you have the list, can you reasonably assume that, at any given point in time, at least 1 percent of these prospects want what you sell right now?
  4. Are you confident you can create a 45-word cold-call offer that 100 percent of your prospects will understand? (If they don't understand it perfectly, they will say, "No.")
  5. If you hit your targeted numbers, will your company and salespeople profit enough to warrant the cost of learning HPS and the continued time to make it work?
  6. Are your salespeople behaviorally suited to high-volume dialing? (I've found that the best heads-down dialers have totally different behavioral traits than the best person-to-person salespeople.)

Personally, even when I can answer "Yes" to 1 through 5, I can never answer "Yes" to number 6, because I hate repetitive tasks. (Despite the claims of HPS people, once you get good at this process it is VERY robotic.) So even though I can be and have been successful at HPS prospecting, I'm miserable while doing it, which violates my "If you aren't having fun selling, get another job" rule.

Opinion: You will not enjoy HPS prospecting unless you're behaviorally suited to high-volume repetitive tasks. That doesn't mean you can't do it anyway, it just means you may not look forward to your day. Behavioral profiling, such as the DISC behavioral profile, can often help you determine whether you'll be able to do this successfully once you learn it. (On the DISC profile, I believe people who rank high in S and C make the best dialers.)

Sales Appointment: The Trust And Respect Inquiry

One of the cornerstones of High Probability Selling is the personal inquiry technique used by salespeople at the beginning of sales appointments to determine whether they can trust the prospects.

The foundation of this interview technique is the belief that people who hold lifetime grudges are basically not trustworthy. So the purpose of the interview is to determine whether a prospect holds lifetime grudges by:

  • Searching his past until you uncover childhood trauma.
  • Finding out who he (the child) blamed for the trauma.
  • Finding out whether the prospect ever made up with the person that caused the trauma, and, if not, finding out whether he still holds a grudge today.

You accomplish this by doing a Trust and Respect Inquiry (formerly called a "Relationship Inquiry") at the beginning of your sales calls. Basically, you get to childhood by asking any generic question, followed by "What came before that?" type questions. For an accelerated example:

Salesperson: "How long have you been president?"

Prospect: "About five years."

Salesperson: "What did you do before that?"

Prospect: "I was chief financial officer at a pet food manufacturing company."

Salesperson: "How did you get into pet-food manufacturing?"

Prospect: "Actually, I got the job right out of college and moved up through the ranks over a 10-year period."

Salesperson: "So did you take accounting in college?"

Prospect: "Yeah. I've always liked working with numbers."

Salesperson: "When did you first realize you liked working with numbers?"

Prospect: "When I was about eight, my dad ..."

Once the prospect mentions something about his childhood, you explore whatever topics he opens. For instance, since the prospect mentioned his dad, it would be okay to ask, "What was your dad like?" Then, when you find anything controversial, you key in on that. For instance, if the prospect mentions hating the piano lessons he had to take, you might ask, "Who made you take piano lessons?" (You may learn that Mom made him take them, and that he hated Mom for it.)

Once you find trauma of any sort, you explore how the conflict was resolved, or whether it was resolved at all.

A secondary theory of the Trust and Respect Inquiry is that, once you finish the interview, the prospect will trust you implicitly, because he just made a connection with you on a visceral level.

The theory is that people are starved to share their innermost feelings, because as adults, they rarely get the chance to do exactly that. In practice, it really is quite easy to find and explore the depths of a person's childhood trauma by asking the questions as advised in HPS. So I certainly would not refute the idea that it can be done.

Opinion: I challenge the fundamental belief upon which this process is based – that people who hold lifetime grudges are not trustworthy. I know of no research supporting this theory, and I know some absolutely trustworthy people who will be glad to hold a lifetime grudge, if you screw them over bad enough.

Bottom line: While I don't use the Trust and Respect inquiry process to look for childhood trauma, the interview technique itself is very sound for diagnosing problems, and I do use the "ask questions about only those subjects raised" concepts during sales calls. (This technique, in combination with some Dale Carnegie techniques I learned way back in 1979, is the foundation of the Visceral Trust Interview I explain in Chapter 3 of "How To Build The [Your Name Here] Sales System."

Sales Appointment: Discovery-Disqualification Questions

The 12 to 13 questions Jacques advises you ask during a sales call do, for the most part, find the typical things that will cost you an engagement, and should be learned and incorporated into your questioning process.

If you've read any popular book on sales you'll recognize many of the questions listed in HPS. For example, one of the questions is "If you decide to go forward with this, who else would have to agree?"

Assume the prospect says, "Joe, our CFO will need to sign the contract." In that case, you're supposed to follow up with something like, "When we're finished with this meeting, if it looks like we have a mutually beneficial basis for doing business, I'll need the chance to talk with Joe. Are you willing to set that up?"

If the prospect agrees, you move on. If not, you are supposed to end the meeting and leave. The assumption is that any prospect not willing to let you speak to Joe is a prospect who is only "kicking tires" – someone not committed to actually buying. So any further time you invest has a very high likelihood of being wasted.

Opinion: I recommend you start by learning the discovery-disqualification questions and trying them as designed. They work pretty well in most situations, and, as you perfect the process, you'll learn when to push the issue to the point of leaving, and when to back off a bit.

Sales Appointment: Conditions Of Satisfaction

When I took the course, Jacques ended the training at the discovery-disqualification questions. Since then, he's added the Conditions of Satisfaction questioning process I'll describe in a second. So, I never learned it from Jacques himself – I've only seen it described by my clients who needed help making HPS work.

As best I can tell, Jacques advises verbally going over every condition you have, and following each with some form of "Is that something you want?" or "Is that what you want to do?" His assertion seems to be that if you do it this way, by the time you finish the sales call, you'll have so many commitments that the sale is virtually guaranteed.

For example, once you've spelled out the project and eliminated the probable reasons you won't get hired, you go over everything as follows:

  • "I'll need access to your executive team for feedback. Is that something you want to provide?"
  • "I can provide written reports weekly. Is that something you want?"
  • "If we move forward, I'll need half the money up front. Is that something you want to do?"
  • "You'll be responsible for providing my team dial-up access to your system. Is that something you want to do?"
  • And so on ...

Opinion: I find this questioning process way too rehearsed, and I would never use it myself. If you don't have a good Conditions of Satisfaction process of your own, give it a try. But if you have something you already like, I wouldn't try this technique.

All Phases: Conditional Commitments

Besides the philosophy of disqualification, the idea of getting Conditional Commitments from prospects is simply the single most useful and productive thing you'll learn from HPS. Simply put, at every transition point you ask something like, "If X, what will you do?"

For instance, after setting the appointment, you might ask, "When we meet, if what I show you is a perfect fit for solving your sales puzzles, what will you do?"

In pure HPS context, unless the prospect replies with something like, "I'll hire you," you would cancel the appointment, because you never go on appointments where the prospect hasn't conditionally committed to buy.

Actually doing this is one of the hardest things you'll find in adopting a disqualification model for selling, because it's where the rubber meets the road. Are you actually willing to walk away from potential business if you can't get a commitment?

Opinion: You should always ask the question. Worst case, if the prospect doesn't commit, at least you'll know where he stands before you walk in the door for the appointment.

Opinion: I believe the concept that people aren't worth meeting unless they've committed to buying is rather shortsighted, because good relationships create sales. Personally, I'll join someone for lunch any time he wants to chat – regardless of whether he is considering buying – because there are so many ways to leverage good relationships that it always pays to build them.

Summary Thoughts

Here are some final thoughts for you to consider when evaluating HPS:

  • Many of the concepts and processes of HPS are basically sound and can help anyone increase results, provided they're incorporated into your overall sales and marketing system. I would not, however, recommend blindly supplanting your entire system with HPS.
  • HPS practiced as taught does not require eight hours per day of effort, so your salespeople will need to do other things to fill their days. And your company must still market in all the normal ways (so don't think HPS will eliminate that from your budget).
  • HPS teaches you to ignore people who are only interested – not willing to make a Conditional Commitment to buy right now. This is a mistake, because, by the time you get back to calling them again (you call about every four weeks), many who were previously only interested will have bought from others. I recommend your salespeople use their own judgment as to whether appointments are worth their time, and evaluate each interested prospect on a case-by-case basis. If your salespeople feel it's appropriate to send information, then by all means they should send it. (Just track the time, cost and results, so you know whether to continue doing it.)
  • If you take the course and decide to try HPS, you should first attempt to apply it exactly as taught until you learn the system. That way, if you decide to back away from some of the rigid concepts, you'll have real-world experience upon which to base your decisions. (After 5,000 offers or 30 sales calls, if you still aren't getting the numbers you want, back off a bit. Analyze what you believe are the roadblocks, and change something.)
  • As seems to be the case with every sales system out there, the only examples and stories you'll hear from HPS trainers are the successes – at least that's all I've ever heard. And HPS advocates, like alumni, can be zealots in their public support of HPS. For example, people who tell me in private that they don't use HPS as rigidly as taught, or aren't getting the results they want, will publicly say they support it completely, and even exaggerate their results. And others, like Neil Myers, who now trains HPS, spent several years telling me how great my modifications were until I wrote this review.
  • Using HPS Cold-Calling is like racewalking a marathon – you never build any real momentum, and, as soon as you stop walking, the effort comes to a screeching halt. There are gravity-creating processes – things designed to get prospects to find you, such as writing a book – that are much more effective at building a large customer base over the long haul. So consider doing these things before, or in addition to, adding HPS Cold-Calling to the mix.
  • My pet peeve about my experience with HPS is the common response the creators and trainers give to anyone who fails to make the process work:

You don't "get it."

First, I know many salespeople who "got it" just fine, but closed much more business by adding components of HPS to their own selling systems, rather than using HPS exactly as taught.

Second, "you don't get it" is a blatant cop-out. Perhaps they should at least change this to "we failed to convey the concept." I would still disagree, but at least I'd respect them for accepting responsibility.

On a scale of one to 10, I give the Disqualification and Conditional Commitment concepts a 10 and the rest of the concepts an average of 7.

Recommendation: Reading the book and taking the course will be a wise investment in time and money for most salespeople – even those who don't want to use high-volume cold-calling to hunt for business. However, do not adhere rigidly to the concepts for very long – if they aren't working as expected within 5,000 to 10,000 dials, then change or adapt something.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

January 05, 2006

Book Review: SPIN Selling

Spin Selling, by Neil Rackham -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

I first heard of SPIN Selling in the early '90s, but the name alone placed it in my mental category of manipulative selling, so I never read the book. After all, "spin" is a well-known marketing tactic centering on avoiding the truth when it hurts your case, so I figured SPIN Selling must be the epitome of that approach.

Then early in 2004, while researching the competition for my first book, I found that SPIN Selling was in the Amazon.com top-25 sales books list. So I decided it was high time I have a look.

Following are my thoughts on the book -- I hope they help you decide whether it's worth buying and reading.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

I absolutely love books based on research, and besides the catchy name, that is the single biggest selling point for SPIN Selling. Rackham is a researcher by profession, and he wrote the book after conducting an extensive research effort and then testing his theories as best he could.

The primary conclusions of Rackham's research are that people behave differently when making major purchases than they do when making minor purchases, so salespeople should adapt their approaches to this fact. He concludes that the best salespeople interview prospects carefully, and that, to sell high-ticket items, you must get the prospect to discuss both the pain associated with the problem at hand and the positive results of fixing that problem.

While his conclusions aren't anything new (after all, he learned all of it by watching individual salespeople do their thing), Rackham's logical approach to proving his theories should help sales managers convince salespeople to stop talking and start asking questions -- eliminating a fundamental mistake made by most salespeople.

Opinion: Anyone who is struggling with the sales appointment will find value in this book. However, if you're looking for more than proof of what should occur, this book is probably not for you, because easily 85 percent of the content is devoted to proving the point, rather than to helping a salesperson learn how to fix the problem. In other words, Rackham stays true to his values by describing the situation, identifying the problem, demonstrating the implication and putting value to the payoff, but then falls short of actually providing the value he says is needed to keep customers happy. If you read SPIN Selling, you will definitely learn what's broken and should be fixed, but you will be left mostly to your own devices on how to fix it.

"Duh" Moment

In my review of David Sandler's book You Can't Teach A Kid To Ride A Bike At A Seminar, I tried to humorously point out that his story of the Sandler submarine (the visual foundation of his system) conjured an image of a sinking sub -- not exactly the image I want of my sales efforts.

Similarly, I simply can't resist taking the spin out of the title SPIN Selling, by mentioning the "duh" moment I had when I realized how far Rackham had to stretch to create the SPIN acronym:

  • S -- Situation (ask questions until the prospect provides a simple, general description of the status quo)
  • P -- Problem (ask questions with the specific intent of guiding the prospect to the conclusion that he has the problem your products or services provide)
  • I -- Implication (ask questions until the prospect clearly and accurately describes the pain associated with the problems he now agrees he has)
  • N -- Need-Payoff (ask questions until the prospect has clearly and accurately described the result of solving the problem and determined the associated return on investment)

Is it just me, or is "need-payoff" rather forced? Throughout the book, Rackham mentions the importance of determining the prospect's "need-payoff," but all his examples describe payoff alone.

The fact is, in the world of sales need is much more accurately associated with problem than payoff. But then again, I doubt SNIP Selling or SPIP Selling would have done remotely as well as SPIN Selling, so while I'll chuckle at the failure of creativity, I'll applaud Rackham for his marketing savvy.

After all, it seems to have worked!

Process

Anyone reading this book can expect to be walked through the following basic process:

  1. You'll be told repeatedly about the value of objective research in determining the truth about what works and what doesn't.
  2. You'll learn through research-based evidence that the very best salespeople spend most of their time asking questions, and the very worst salespeople spend most of their time describing their products and services.
  3. You'll learn that, when selling low-ticket items, being an obnoxious jerk can actually help. (Note: While Rackham makes this point several times throughout the book, he really never offers objective proof for this conclusion -- citing only his own experience as a buyer to justify the point. In other words, he never discussed any testing of alternative approaches for those selling low-ticket items.)
  4. You'll learn that, while you should ask about the prospect's general situation, such as how long he has been in business, the majority of your time should be spent asking questions about the problem, the pain it causes and the payoff of fixing it.
  5. You'll learn that traditional objection-handling and closing skills are more harmful than helpful when selling.
  6. In Chapter 8, "Turning Theory Into Practice," you'll learn the second-most valuable piece of information in this book -- a step-by-step approach to applying new concepts over time, so you can actually put into practice anything new you learn.
  7. And finally, in Appendix A, "Evaluating The SPIN Model," you'll learn the most valuable lesson SPIN Selling has to offer -- ways to objectively measure whether sales training actually increases sales.

Manipulation Factor

Overall, Rackham's advice is to be straight and honest with prospects. That being said, I do have one major complaint.

In the example conversations Rackham uses throughout the book, he describes how to ask leading questions of the prospect -- questions designed to get the prospect to focus on only the problems you solve, regardless of whether they're truly important to him or her. Rackham even tells you to prepare those leading questions in advance, then uses them in "successful" examples.

At one point Rackham uses an example whereby a prospect clearly says why he needs copiers that can copy double-sided, and tells you, he salesperson, that, if your copier doesn't have that feature, you should avoid discussing double-sided copying at all -- effectively steering the prospect to other problems you can solve.

While this manipulative approach might help you close this sale, it completely violates the concepts of Honest Selling, whereby your mission is to build solid, long-term relationships by always helping the prospect make the best choice possible -- even when that choice is not your products or services.

Opinion: This "close today" approach completely ignores the fact that customers who are talked into buying less-than-the-best solutions rarely come back, rarely provide referrals, rarely write testimonials and rarely act as references. The opportunities you gain by always doing what's best for each prospect outweigh the value of today's sale 10 to 1. So, even if you read the book and adopt the SPIN Selling concepts, do not forget that it's the customer's true needs that come first.

Opinion: On a side note, I found the testimonials on the back cover to be very suspect. They may be totally legit, but not one of them is accompanied by the name of the person who supposedly spoke or wrote the comment.

Recommendation

What you will not get from SPIN Selling is a real approach to getting all the information you need to close deals. There is nothing about how to find and get conversations with the true decision-makers, nothing about handling deal-breakers or getting solid commitments, nothing related to organizing your sales appointments so you don't miss key points, nothing about determining budget or buying processes, and nothing whatsoever about marketing or prospecting.

If you're really struggling with the appointment hour, then the book is worth reading. Or, if you're already interviewing prospects correctly, consider buying the book and skipping straight to Chapter 8 and Appendix A -- those two chapters alone will give you ideas you can use in dozens of ways throughout your career. (I've already changed one of my approaches to sales training based on the concepts in Chapter 8. And I have a new idea for a service I can provide based on the ideas I got from Appendix A.)

Honestly, the book isn't bad. But I truly don't know what all the fuss is about. (And if the fuss is really all about the name, which I believe it is, that's a sad commentary on the gullibility quotient of the world's sales force.)

And finally, I must admit that, after reading the book, I was left with the feeling that Rackham's training might be worthwhile. After all, if his measurement examples in Appendix A are indeed accurate, his training must be accomplishing something.

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

December 09, 2005

Book Review: The "I Hate Selling" Book

The "I Hate Selling" Book, by Allan S. Boress -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

I first read Boress' book shortly after starting my third company -- a computer technology project management firm. (I read it because Ifound the title particularly intriguing.)

Except for a few notable slipups, he has nothing manipulative in the book, which I found refreshing, since I have always believed manipulation in any form destroys trust and hurts sales.

While this is not really a how-to book, the concepts Boress discusses and the ideas he conveys can be used very effectively if you sell professional services. Product salespeople who sell to professional buyers, however, will most likely find High Probability Selling to be a better fit.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

Diagnosis is the key to sales –- that's the fundamental idea conveyed throughout The "I Hate Selling" Book. Boress advises that anyone selling professional services should act like a doctor –- diagnose the problem, prescribe a solution and learn whether the patient is committed to solving the problem you diagnosed.

Boress calls this a "Sales Examination," and it's this concept that not only gives Boress' book its value but also makes it easy to understand and to apply the concepts discussed. (Attorneys, accountants and consultants get paid to diagnose issues and offer solutions, so doing this in a sales call is second nature for most.)

Opinion: Allan Boress has the right idea, and anyone who sells professional services and then performs the service itself can benefit from what Boress has to say.

The Process

The "I Hate Selling" Book focuses almost exclusively on the sales call. There is one chapter on telephone prospecting at the end of the book, but in that chapter Boress makes it abundantly clear that he hates telephone prospecting. And if you've ever prospected by telephone, I'm sure you'll find that what he says is some of the worst advice you've ever seen on cold-calling.

Opinion: The majority of the book is excellent, but Boress made a huge mistake adding the chapter on telephone prospecting, because it's clear he is neither experienced in, nor an advocate for, telephone prospecting. (I'll bet big bucks his publisher made him add this chapter.)

The Sales Examination

Read the book, and you'll learn Boress' six-step approach to a sales examination:

  1. Test for Personal Chemistry
  2. Test for Emotional Needs, Wants, Desires or Musts
  3. Test for Commitment to Action
  4. Test for Ability and Desire to Pay
  5. Test for Knowledge of the Decision Making Process and the Ability to Influence That Process
  6. Test to See If a Presentation or a Proposal Is Necessary, and Determine What It Should Look Like

Almost all of what Boress proposes is good advice. So, rather than giving you details, I'll just recommend you buy and read his book (all but the chapter on telephone prospecting, that is).

--
Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

November 17, 2005

Book Review: You Can't Teach A Kid To Ride A Bike At A Seminar

You Can't Teach A Kid To Ride A Bike At A Seminar, by David H. Sandler -- review by Gill E. Wagner

Prologue

This will be a high-level review of my beliefs about the Sandler Selling System, not an in-depth analysis, because I found much of what Sandler proposes to be manipulative, despite his claims to the contrary. I also found myself wondering whether I could believe a word of what Sandler wrote, considering that he says manipulation during the sales process is acceptable.

As with most selling systems, however, I found nuggets of usable and valuable information dotted throughout the book.

Enjoy,

Gill

Philosophy

The Sandler Selling System works under the assumption that, since prospects "always lie," it is okay to manipulate them into doing what you want them to do. As a result, much of what is taught focuses on overcoming sales resistance. This creates a vicious circle for the salesperson – because manipulative tactics create the very sales resistance they're designed to overcome.

Opinion: If you go into a sales call believing the prospect will lie, then your behavior will create the very lies you believe will occur. In my opinion, this self-fulfilling prophecy is the single biggest problem with the Sandler system.

Interestingly enough, the book starts off by bashing "traditional" sales methods, then proceeds to discuss ways to overcome sales resistance and turn the tables on prospects – two very traditional practices.

Then in chapter five, Sandler claims that his system is the only one in existence (at the time of publication) that isn't simply "a rehash of archaic selling principles." You need look no further than High Probability Selling (HPS) to find that this claim is outrageous.

Opinion: On a scale of 1 to 10, where 10 is highly manipulative, I'd put Sandler's system at about 5.

The Process

The Sandler Selling System described in the book focuses almost exclusively on the sales call itself, rather than on finding and setting appointments with prospects. (He briefly discusses telephone prospecting, but covers nothing of real substance.)

Sandler also covers the emotional side of selling – "the psychology of human dynamics in professional selling." While I found his description of these concepts to be an interesting twist, they actually are a rehash of age-old psychological theories and ideas.

So if you choose to read the book, figure on learning about the following:

  1. Psychological ways to separate your emotions from the sales process.
  2. Ideas and strategies for taking total control of the sales process through manipulation.
  3. Methods for overcoming the sales resistance that you'll encounter from most prospects.
  4. Strategies for minimizing buyer remorse after the "close" is made.

What You R And Who You I

In an early chapter of the book, you'll learn about separating your self-image from your role image. Sandler calls this knowing the difference between "What You R and Who You I."

I may be dense, but I read this section several times, and I still don't have a clue what he means by his catchphrase. However, I can tell you that his ideas are founded in transactional analysis, which is a valid psychological theory that deals with the structure of social interactions.

Opinion: A salesperson who is struggling with feelings of constant rejection might learn a bit from Sandler's explanation. However, I find that if you simply stop trying to manipulate people, and help them make wise purchase decisions instead, the rejection tends to disappear.

The Sandler Submarine

Sandler uses the following analogy to explain the concept of finishing one step before moving on to another:

"Remember the World War II movies in which a depth charge hits dangerously close to the stern of the submarine? The hero rushes belowdecks, summons the men out of the damaged compartment, slams the thick metal door, and spins the wheel as the compartment fills with water. There's no way to get back into that compartment, but the ship stays afloat. Tensions mount, the film rolls on, and the next compartment begins to fill with water. Again the hero moves the men forward, slams the thick metal door, spins the wheel and the compartment fills with water. And so the process continues until each compartment fills with water, and the men continue moving forward to safety and to success."

Opinion: I don't now about you, but when I read that analogy I visualized a picture of a sinking sub with its crew crammed into the front compartment, which doesn't make me think of "moving forward to safety and success." Still, the concept Sandler is trying to convey – using a step-by-step process in your sales call – is sound.

Reverses And Negative Reverses

Two of the cornerstones of Sandler's system are the reverse and the negative reverse. These are techniques designed to deflect objections, ignore questions and guide the prospect to overcoming his own obstacles to hiring you or buying from you.

It's difficult to explain the reversing concept without using an example, so I'll use the two from the chapter where reversing is introduced. (The "conversations" are quotes from the book.)

"Incorrect" Approach

PROSPECT: "Will this software package work with Windows?"

AMATEUR SALESPERSON: (excited at sensing a sale!): "Why, Yes!"

PROSPECT: "Even version 2.1?"

AMATEUR SALESPERSON: "Yes, even 2.1."

PROSPECT: "Well, all the other programs I've tried to run in 2.1 haven't been successful."

"Correct" Approach

PROSPECT: "Will this software package work with Windows?"

PROFESSIONAL SALESPERSON: "That's an interesting question. Why do you ask?"

PROSPECT: "I'm wondering just how difficult it will be to run in Windows."

PROFESSIONAL SALESPERSON: "That make sense. But can I ask why that's important to you?"

PROSPECT: "Because all the other programs I've tried to run in 2.1 haven't worked easily."

Sandler claims that there is a huge difference between these two situations. In the first, he claims that "Wham! The salesperson just got clobbered by an iceberg," and now must scramble to overcome the objection. In the second, he says that the salesperson now knows the true problem and can "respond to the prospect's concern."

This is just one example of many types of reverses Sandler explains in the book, all of which are designed to avoid actually answering the question in the hopes the prospect will answer it for himself.

Opinion: Most adults are a bit too smart for this type of thing, and if you try it some will actually respond with comments like, "Don't use a reversing technique on me, just answer the damned question."

I prefer to always answer direct questions and, when appropriate, to follow up with one of my own, because this forces me to listen to the actual question, instead of concentrating on my "sales techniques."

PROSPECT: "Will this software package work with Windows?"

ME: "Yes it will. Are you planning to run it on Windows?"

PROSPECT: "Yes. Version 2.1. Will it work on that?"

ME: "Yes it will."

PROSPECT: "All the other programs I've tried to run in 2.1 haven't been successful."

ME: "Well we haven't had any problems at all. But since you're having problems with everything in 2.1, I'm wondering whether your Windows installation might have a problem itself. Have you had a Windows specialist check that out?"

By focusing only on the use of a reversing technique, Sandler's salesperson failed to listen and may missed a critical issue – the prospect's system may be faulty at the operating system level. That being said, some of what he describes about reversing is actually useful, provided you also listen to your prospects.

Opinion: To make his reversing technique better, first answer the question you're asked, then follow up with his reversing concepts.

As for Sandler's negative reverse, anyone with children knows this quite well – tell them they can't have it, and they'll want it all the more. Here's one of his examples:

"Negative reverse selling is a powerful technique, but you won't like it."

He calls this the "build-up and take-away." I'm supposed to be more attracted to negative reverse selling now that he tells me it's great but that I won't like it.

Opinion: He's right – I don't like it, because it's a transparent attempt to control my thinking. It actually may work with some people, but it's simply too manipulative for my tastes and too easy for a savvy buyer to spot: "Nice try, but that's the negative reverse technique and I'm not falling for it."

Summary Thoughts

Here are some final thoughts for you to consider when evaluating the Sandler Selling System, and the book "You Can't Teach A Kid To Ride A Bike At A Seminar":

  • I don't believe many of the claims Sandler makes, because he tells me in the book that it's okay to manipulate a prospect.
  • I found a few tips and techniques I could apply to my own system, and anyone who reads the book will likely find some they can use as well.
  • Sandler is dead on when he says that buyers are savvy when it comes to knowing all the sales tricks of the day. The problem is, his own techniques are widely known as well, so their effectiveness is undoubtedly spiraling downward even as you read this review.

    Opinion: The only way to have your "sales techniques" never decline in effectiveness is to stop using techniques and simply be honest with prospects.

On a value scale of 1 to 10, I give Sandler's concepts a 4.

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Gill E. Wagner, Sage of Selling
President of Honest Selling
Founder of the Yellow-Tie International Business Development Association

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